Thoughts

Black Women vs. White Women

A Thomas Point of View

Why do they always seem to put us up against one another? Why is it that it’s always in the news that black men prefer white women or that black women have bad attitudes? Why is it that society can’t seem to find us beautiful?

If it’s not one thing, it’s another, but this is no pity piece. I don’t need your sympathy or coaxing to tell me that I’m beautiful. Hell, I know I am! My confidence and self-esteem are not defined by society nor shattered by their comments. I love me. The skin I’m in and the woman that I am.

My issue is when people want to pit us against one another. Can’t we all just get along? I mean seriously. I have some cool white girlfriends that I call my sisters and hell I’m sure that they think I’m a cool black girlfriend. Race doesn’t divide…

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Gender Roles: Should the guy always initiate sex?

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On The Dance Floor

This past weekend I went out for drinks and good music with my bestie! We went to a spot where all the cougars and sugar daddies hang. So you know it was great music. The kind of music you heard as a kid growing up when your parents how their parties. Somehow we always found out way out of our rooms dancing.

In my family we all are good dancers… I’m working on my son. He is still young. Anyways, as we bobbed out heads to the good music, I watched this older lady. She seemed to be about late 40s or early 50s, she stayed on the floor all night. It was a few other that were out there like her. But she didn’t need or care to have a dance partner, she was vibing and grooving to the beats. I whispered to my bestie, that is gonna be me when I get older.

I swear I love dancing, good music will have me up and out of my seat. I’m no wall flower, play one good song and I’m on it all night. Even in my clubs days, I would order my drink and wait for that one good song that would bring me out to the dance floor.

Other than it being a great work out, I just can’t hear a good beat and just stand there like a bump on a long. Nope, even listening to music wherever I’m moving my body.

Anyone else out there like that?