People tend to complain about situations they are in and ask for advice only to do nothing. When I encounter people like this I will offer advice and then if you still in that spot I choose to be done with as a whole. I no longer wish to hear about and most importantly care. At this point I have come to the point of your comfortable with this so no need to complain.
I have told friends and loved ones, I no longer wanna partake in your pity party. If you bring up his or her name, I will step away because all things related to this person could’ve been over with but you love sitting in misery and I don’t want to be invited to that party!