This is about work… well work signatures. Boring right!?! But you never realize who pays attention to the details. So my work email has the usual things in it:
But of course your girl is a big fan of quotes. So I add a quote on mines. Usually something about work ethics. Most people just dismiss it, but not this one Assistant Commissioner. They made it a note to tell me they look forward to reading my quotes. They see that I change them every so often.
What does one say to that?! Thanks right… now I’m more thoughtful when I change it. Anticipating they’re comment on it.
I said all that to say, you never know who is paying attention in the work place.
Now if you follow me on social media especially facebook, I share thoughts. Usually these thoughts are based off a conversation I had with a friend. Almost always, someone jumps into their feelings when reading what I posted. In their mind I have subliminally attacked them, so they end up asking me is that post directed at them. I Hate That Question!! I have a motto, if you think or assume it’s about you at that point it is.
I have in fact pointed out how they can feel that it is directed at them especially when they explain why they thought it was directed at them. But seriously, half the time I’m not thinking of anyone when I post things. I simply had a conversation and wanted to share my thoughts or parts of the conversation to get others people input.
I wish I had the Moragn Freeman meme… ya’ll know which one I’m talking about. 😂😂
Seems like dark cloud are hovering over my life right now. What do you do when you are completely disappointed and drained? I have been the a variety of a emotions in the last couple of months. Honestly, I dont know how I get out of the bed every morning. I smile when inside I’m dying. I feel like the total definition of two faces. But I have to be, I have to push forward and I’m determined to fight this thing.
I really can’t go into details.. but I will be glad once this cloud as moved on and leave my life.
Praying for strength to push through for my family… because all I can try and do is protect them!
So I debated on whether to post this but I figured why not. Let me give you the back story. Dude sends a friend request… now most know I have a podcast so sometimes I accept randoms (women and men) on a trial basis. So I accept, we have a inbox convo about my podcast, then he ask was I single. I said, yes but dating someone. He left me alone. A few days ago he decides to spark a conversation telling me he intention was to date me and then get married. I could’ve ignore this all together but my spider sense told me it was a catfish or some BS. I had time so I asked did he see the show and he said yea. Told me he is in the military (I doubt that) etc etc. I let him know I’m not interested and that was it. Nope, he send me a message in my inbox… read below
I had way too much time, glad I always follow my instincts!!