Talked yourself out of getting into a relationship? Really think about this question. You ever met someone you deemed too good to be true so you find ways to not move forward? Why do we self sabotage things when things are looking good?
Black folks have a way of annoying my soul. Yes, I’m black. I GET THAT YOU ARE PRO BLACK, ALL BLACK EVERYTHING. IF YOU AREN’T AWAKE, YOUR LOST KIND OF BLACK FOLKS.
Many holidays come throughtout the year and it never fails someone gotta come out and this holiday ain’t for us, its for white folks, it’s a pagan holiday, you brainwashing your kids and all that jazz. You say it every holiday, every year we get it. Some people choose to celebrate and that’s their right, so can they live? Seriously?! If you don’t we know why, but it doesn’t you have to press people to do what you choose to do. That’s like forcing someone to believe your religious beliefs. We are all different people and we can make decisions for ourselves. Why can’t you respect our views be it right or wrong?
A person can be supporting black owned business, informed on things and bettering the black communities but has decided to celebrate the holidays of their choosing. Doesn’t that make anyone less black than you?
Why can’t we do what our parents do, celebrate what they want and when the children are educated on the truth of the holiday choose at that point whether or not they want to continue to celebrate it. Or is that something white people do?
“I went on a date once, we walked thru the park and talked. It was a nice date. I don’t go on dates and have a man break his pockets to prove something to me. There are men that do that too impress and I’m not here for that. Impress me with your time, consistency, respect and loyalty.”
Here is my question: Does the amount of money someone spends on you during a date, make or break the date?
Why does the amount of money even matter? Shouldn’t the thought and intent matter more? Why do people get so hung up on this? If the guy or gal trying to impress someone with money than that gives you a sense of what kind of person you are dealing with. Now if your a golddigger this may seem appealing to you.
Drop some comments, I wanna here your thoughts on this.
How many people are out here living a lie? Pretending to be happy when they are clearly unhappy? How many people people are in relationships that they are miserable in? How many people are married just to say they are married? How many people are scared to be alone so they jump from relationship to relationship? Can you really not bare the thought of being alone? Being comfortable with yourself, loving yourself?
You’re okay with being complacent in your choices knowing you are truly unhappy and miserable?