Does one matter more than the other?
In my experience I feel connection out weighs time… but what are your thoughts?
Say you have met someone and after while you realize the connection you guys have made is amazing. It’s not even the sex it’s the conversation, the way you treat each other and how you guys move to compliment each other. Being mindful there are no titles being thrown out. You guys are just going off the energy of one another.
A scenario happens that makes you both question if you are on the same page and for whatever reason you guys cannot seem to get back to where things were.
In the conversation its get brought up on the time span of meeting each other and even though you’ve both admitted to loving each other and one in love.
Should the person in love feel some kind of what that things have changed and now time matters.. other people are now inserted in the picture and everything seems to be a stand still all while there is no movement forward.
Does time out weigh the connection? Or does no of it matter the switch up along speaks volumes?
We all are guilty at some point in our lives of getting caught up in the idea of something. I have been caught up in an idea that relationships are working, when clearly they are not.
To quite honest, I have been caught up in mixed signals when words speak more true and as of late actions. Here I am settling down to prepare for a relationship that is never gonna happen. Who am I kidding? I need to stop pretending things are as I want them to be.
Hate to sound pitiful but if I’m being honest, I doubt I’m going to be in any relationship any time soon. Why? Because I feel myself always trying to prove that I’m worthy of being picked, worthy to be that someone to someone. Being told I’m a good woman, just never good enough for anyone I want to date. Or not believe anyone who is interested in me. Mostly because most ppl are interested because they want to be with me intimately only. Maybe that’s the vibe I give off. Idk… maybe I just need time to myself.
But honestly, I have tired that and then someone gets my attention. And of course I’m caught up in the idea yet again only to be let down.
Idk guys felt like venting…