Tag: advice

Posted in GFT Radio, opinions, Question, relationships, Thoughts

Tonight @10pm  (est)

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​Join us at 10pm as we discuss gender roles pertaining to relationships. Should the guy always initate sex? This is sure to be a great discussion, so make sure you’re tuned in and/or calling in (657) 383-1155. Phone lines open up at 10:15 pm (est). We will also be live tweeting so @gft_radio and we will read your questions or comments on the air!!

Other topics:

The Dine-And-Dasher

Question: What would you do if you were to be married in 30 Days and results came back that your partner had an STD(STI) they couldn’t get rid of, but you were clear?
Streaming link in the comments. G.F.T Radio

Posted in Black History, GFT Radio, opinions, Personal, Thoughts

Sunny’s: Ladies Round Table

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Join Sunny, Quiahna & Neisha Thursday @10pm (est) at the #LadiesRoundTable as we discuss issues from our point of view. Click this link to stream it live: BlogTalkRadio

* Pros & Cons of Child Support
* Getting advice on how to be a single parent.
* Why is everything our fault?
* Self Esteem: Complimenting Other Women
* Dating

This is sure to be a great discussion and feel free to call in (657) 383-1155. Phone lines open up at 10:15pm (est). Also we will be live tweeting @gft_radio G.F.T Radio

Posted in opinions, Personal, random, Thoughts, venting

Fuck It!

Posted on by iamsunnyd

bitmoji1873194955Sometimes you just have to throw your hands up and say “Fuck It”! This week I had to do that! When you try to hard to do something and keep getting met with a brick wall, you just have to say “Fuck It”.

In these past few weeks of training for my new title, I was ‘supposed’ to be training folks to do the things I was previously doing and will no longer be doing. All that while learning my new job. Fun right? Nah, I thought it would be fought with some issues. But you can force someone to learn something they are so hell bent on not learning. You would think my work was Rocket Science or something.

At one point, I was told “I’m doing my job and yours.” I wanted so badly to say, no it’s your job now. But I didn’t, I got so frustrated I bitched about it all yesterday. I spoke with my boss and explain the situation so I can cover my ass. Today, I walked into work like if you wanna learn I’m here, if not that’s cool too. Needless to say, I spent the bulk of my day learning my new job.

I’m a faster learner and if I don’t understand I will ask questions. My new unit seems pleased with my ability to learn efficiently and effectively. That is great for me, I see more promotions in my future.

I wrote this post to vent but help someone, if they are experiencing the same as me. I know its nothing new. But know that as long as you attempted to do your job, you can’t help it if those who are put in places to learn don’t want to learn. At that point the manager should be made aware and you move on. Unless instructed otherwise.

Posted in Ask Sunny, opinions, Question, Thoughts

Ask Sunny

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I started this series on my old blog and it was fun. I know most readers like to get to know the person blogging or get their thoughts on different things. So what do you have to do? Send me an email with your questions. In the subject line use “Ask Sunny” and I will post my reply here. Depending on my mood I may do a Vlog. You just never know.

My email is: iamsunnyd@yahoo.com

I can’t wait to hear from you guys!!

Posted in opinions, Question, Quotes, Thoughts

On Falling Out Of Love

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2cbf1871a0d5d1345dc9941dc29ff9e7“Cuz when a woman’s fed up
(No matter how you beg, no)
It ain’t nothing you can do about it
(Nothing you can do about it)
It’s like running out of love
(No matter what you say, no)
And then it’s too late to talk about it
(Too late to talk about it)” ~ R. Kelly “When A Woman’s Fed Up”

Most women love hard, we love so much so that when we know things are not good we hold on even tighter. Sometimes it takes a drastic thing to happen for us to finally be fed up and leave.

I remember talking to an ex trying to get some clarity as to why things ended the way they did. His answer was this, “I wasn’t ready for me. I felt I was holding you back, so I had to do what I had to, to let you go and move on from me.” This puzzled me to some degree, but then I understood, that I was gonna fight for that relationship to the point where I would end up regretting it all. So even though the manner in which things hurt be to my core, I could now move on and find peace.

Now when it comes to love, I know my limits in which I will take things. But those lyrics and that picture speak truth. When we get to the point when we are no longer in love with you. We have exhausted all avenues and we just need to walk away. The love is just not there anymore and anything you can and say will not matter to us.

No one wants to be the bad guy, but sometimes to keep the friendship in tact you need to make a clean break. But how do you do something like that without hurting someone in the worst way possible?

I know I wrote this from a females prospective, I would love to know how men feel and react on this topic. Drop me a line….